Monday, September 1, 2014

Motivation Monday - September 2014 Goals

Since my father died in 2011, I've really struggled to get back to the research and the blogging. In the past 3+ years, I've declared on several occasions that I was ready to get back to the research / blogging only to disappear, again. I won't make any promises that this time will be different but I do find myself doing things that hopefully mean I'm finally finding my way back.

So, once again, I find myself writing a list of monthly goals to get me started. Since my research trip to my paternal ancestors home county is coming up next week (no I'm not ready), I'm thinking I'll get a few of these goals accomplished and hopefully before the trip. So here goes


  1. Write a minimum of 2 posts for the month of September. I hope to be able to do more than that but I'm also trying to be a bit realistic also.

  1. Most of the goals in this area are the same as those found on Georgia Black Crackers. The only additional goal is before the research trip to make sure the information I have for paternal grandmother's side of the family is organized and properly cited.

  1. Make a list of the goals I hope to accomplish during my research trip and what records I plan to view in an attempt to reach the goal. Goal Date: September 6, 2014

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Research Trip in the Works

After researching my family off and on for the past 20 years, I'm finally going to make a trip to my paternal ancestors home county.

The goal is to do this trip on September 12th. Yes this first trip will only be a one day trip, so between now and then, I will need to get back on top of things since I've not really done any research this year or for that matter in the last 3 years.

I would like to spend more time in the ancestral home county but one of my 2nd cousins, my grand Aunt Goldie's grandson, will be going with me, so time will be limited. Cousin Clifford can only expend one day and Friday's and Monday's are the best for him. I'm still contemplating going ahead of him and spending a day there just by myself.

I'm sure I'll be consulting a few of my genealogy buds, who research nearby areas, so I can decide what is the best use of my time during my second research trip ever but my first trip on the paternal side of my family.

So, over the next month, I'll be formulating and laying out my plan of attack. I'm excited to finally be taking this journey.

Monday, April 7, 2014

Motivation Monday - April 2014 Goals

Nothing much has happened during the 4 months since my last post. I think I've finally gotten through most if not all of the health issues that derailed me last year right after I declared I was again motivated. I'm not making any guarantees that I'll stick around this time time but I'm trying to make an effort to get back to the research and blogging.

So, I'm hoping that if I set some goals for myself, this will help.

Most of these are just a rehash of the goals I posted on Georgia Black Crackers but I'm still praying that it will help to repost them here, also.


  1. Write a minimum of 1 post per week.
  1. Organize and makes sure that citations are in order for my folder, mom's folder, and dad's folder. As state in previous posts I keep folders for individuals as well as families but I need to better organize these and make sure that that citations are done correctly, etc. Goal Date: April 19, 2014
  2. Get office / craft room back in order. This room has been in a upheaval since last year when I had new flooring installed. I can barely move around in this room much less get things out to do research. Goal Date: April 26, 2014

  1. Write a research plan for determining / confirming the last owner of my 3rd great grandparents, Frank and Venus Everett. Goal Date: April 12, 2014

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Saturday Night Genealogy Fun - Dear Genea Santa

Yes, I know it's Sunday and not Saturday, but shouldn't you just be grateful that I'm posting.

This post is in response to Randy Seaver's, Genea-Musings, Saturday Night Genealogy Fun Challenge for Saturday, December 7, 2013.

I already posted some of my wish list over at Georgia Black Crackers. In addition, to those items, I would like for Genea-Santa to bring these item for my paternal ancestors.

  1. Documentation that links my 2nd great grandmother, Vicy Ann Everett, to her parents, Frank and Venus Everett. I know they are her parents, I just need a little documentation that says so.
  2. If she's still living, I would love to still be able to talk to my grandmother's first cousin, Cleo Everett . Since discovering in 2012 that she was still living, I've not had a chance to talk to her. 

Saturday, December 7, 2013

The Book of Me, Written by You - Prompt 12 - The Year I Was Born.

In an effort to get back to blogging, researching, etc. I've decided to start participating in Julie Goucher's activity, The Book of Me, Written by You.

Even though the activity is already up to prompt 14 or 15, at the least, I've decided to began with Prompt 12 - The Year I Was Born.

I decided to tackle the decade I was born instead of just the year. You can read all about my birth decade over at Georgia Black Crackers by clicking here.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Who Tries to Plan a Research Trip in Winter?

In the midst of the Holiday Season no less? Me, that's who.

I've got 5 vacation days that I need to use between now and the end of the year. So, I came up with the brilliant idea to finally do a trek to the Ancestral Homelands (Martin County, NC) or to the North Carolina State Archives, which, believe it or not, I've still not ventured to even after all these years of on and off research.

I can't decide which one to do or whether I should try to do both.

Traveling to Raleigh to the State Archives would only be about a 3 hour drive and if I wanted to do more than one day, I could probably overnight with relatives.

Traveling to Williamston, NC would be a 4 to 4 1/2 hour drive and if I decided to do more than one day, I will need to make lodging arrangements.

As far as the actual research part of the trip, if there is anything to be found, I could probably find it in the State Archives and would only have to venture to one location. On the other hand, venturing to the ancestral homelands would give me an opportunity to finally see the area where at least 4 generations of my ancestors lived, toiled, struggled, and preserved, and right now there's a big part of me that needs that connection. In addition, should I need to try to venture to an old forgotten cemetery, this is actually the perfect time of year to try to do that as the foliage and weeds are dying in preparation for the winter months.

One thing is for sure, should I decide to go ahead and do one and maybe two research trips in the next few weeks, I need to put a plan together for what I want to look at, documents I hope to find, etc.

Would you try to plan a research trip at this time of the year? I would love to hear your thoughts, pros and cons for attempting to do a research trip at this time of the year.

Saturday, October 12, 2013

2013 AAHGS Conference - Saturday, October 12, 2013

Another fun-filled, jam packed day here at the AAHGS conference.

I begin the day by working in a bit of much needed exercise.

After having a filling lunch of salmon on orzo, it was off to session II, Unlocking Our Southern Mosaic: Examining a Family's Life Near It's Slavery Origins, by Dwight Fryer. Mr. Fryer's work as a minister was evident in the way he told the story of his family's origins in Grand Junction, TN.

I have to be honest, when Mr. Fryer began his presentation, I thought he was referring to Grand Junction, CO, a locale where I resided for a few years during my adult life. It was a little confusing at first, because his description of Grand Junction of course wasn't matching up with the Grand Junction I knew. After realizing there was another Grand Junction, the presentation began to make sense.

Wonderful points of interest from Mr. Fryer's presentation include:

  • A Union Army Contraband Camp was formed in Grand Junction, TN.
  • Western Tennessee, where Grand Junction is located, had the same culture and politics as Mississippi. In fact, Mr. Fryer referred to it as Tennessipi.
For the next session (III), I attended Understanding African American Genealogical Patterns as Remnants of Slave Culture: Demographics, Family Dynamics and Religious Practices. The presenters were Rev. Dr. Richard Gardiner and Ceteria Richey.

Ceteria, realized like many African-American families that she knew more about her mother's side of the family that she did her father's side of the family. She also realized that her mother's family was a strongly matriarchal family.

Using the principles of Cognitive Therapy, Ceteria tries to understands the whys of her family? Cognitive Therapy seeks the patient overcome difficulties by  identifying and changing dysfunctional thinking, behavior, and emotional responses. These principles can be applied to society as a whole.

The roots of the matrifocal society in the African-American community finds it's roots in slavery. During slavery, African-American women's value was their womb. Slavery was perpetuated because the status of any children born into slavery was through the mother. When women were sold it was always due to her potential increase to the owner. Women and their young children were often sold together.

Mean while, men were often used as studs, in other words, humans were breed like cattle and horses. Often if the men and women refused each other, they might be whipped.

In my younger days, I use to argue against this notion, that 100+ years removed from slavery that the effects of slavery were still manifest. But, as I've gotten older and looked through the more mature eyes, it seems that families that came through slavery intact do not seem to have as many of the problems as those who were ripped apart.

For the final session of the day, I attended Shelly Murphy's (aka familytreegirl on Twitter) Hitting the Genealogy Brick Walls & Challenges: The Search for Information about Joseph Brand Davis.

Shelly hates using the term Brick Walls because she believes there are no such thing as Brick Walls only Challenges. 

Highlights from Shelly's presentation are as follows:
  • All research should focus on asking questions
  • Know what laws were in place during a particular time frame.
  • Records generate other records
The day was wrapped up with dinner, a little entertainment by two young local talents, and the awards ceremony. Sandwiched between the entertainment and the awards presentation, we listened to the keynote speaker, Thomas Cain talk about the Nashville connection to the music industry. Can you say Little Richard.

And with that it's a wrap folks as my time here at the 2013 AAHGS conference comes to a close. Mom and I will be heading home in the AM. I've had a wonderful time meeting new people, finally meeting those I've known online for a few years now, and just being able to get away for a few days.

Hopefully, this is finally the beginning of me returning to the research and blogging. I hear the ancestors telling me to get back with it.